Who are you?

With the hoopla of the Super Bowl over, there is some commentary on the performance of The Who, playing their most popular songs, many of which also happen to be the theme songs of of the CBS shows in the CSI series.  The most well known, perhaps, asks the question “Who Are You?”

The question is one I found an interesting answer to on a recent Saturday.  I was introduced to someone using a phrase that is maybe one of the best “who are you” answers about me

For many of us, what we do defines us to others. Carlos Zambrano and Jonathan Sanchez both became legends last year , and will now be known as pitchers who threw perfect games in Major League Baseball.  Lance Moore will be known as the Saints football player who smartly etended the ball over the goal line during the 2 point conversion play in Superbowl  XLIV. When I used to live in the city, there was an older man known as “walking man.”

I never learned his name, although most everyone in the town knew of him.  He was well into his 70′s, and would walk in running shorts, shirtless, all times of day and in all parts of the town.  We would see him beginning in the early spring through late fall.  His chest, muscular for his age, deeply brown from sun.  To the community, he was “walking man”.

There’s Bill the mechanic, Joyce the librarian, or Jeff, “the guy with the two big dogs.” In my life, I’ve been known as student, consultant, entrepreneur, producer, professor, boss, husband, dad, brother, uncle, ex, and other things that might tip the censorship of this blog to the limit.

So who am I these days? On that Saturday I found out.

Don Winslow shot this photo in Austin, Texas.

We were sitting at Bob’s barn, catching up on stories from the week when a local woman dropped off her car for some work.  She knew one of the men I was talking with, but didn’t know the rest of us, and as the introductions went around the room, when they came to me, he said,

“This is Fritz, he lives south of town, he raises ducks and pheasants.”

I guess that pretty much sums it up.

Labor Day Snapshot: Bob’s Barn

This morning's coffee, not at Bob's, but on the deck.  The cup comes from the Linden Street Coffee Shop

This morning's coffee, not at Bob's, but on my deck. The cup comes from the Linden Street Coffee Shop

Today is the 128th celebration of Labor Day in the United States, a day when we celebrate the spirit and strength and of the trade and labor groups and workers.  It caused me to think about the idea of work and workers and one of the places that captures that spirit is just up the road called “Bob’s Barn”.

The little towns I know have their own version of Bob’s Barn.  It’s an informal meeting place, often for local farmers. And while farmers are known to meet at coffee shops,  it’s not always a cafe, restaurant, or coffee dive.  Often, it’s a feed store, crawling with barn cats; a tire shop fragrant with grease and solvent; or  a simple building where time has created a tradition. Many times’ is a few worn out chairs, a coffee pot, and a refrigerator stocked with pop (or soda) and candy bars.  Everything is sold on the honor system.

Bob’s Barn is actually it’s second home.  The first home I came to know was the building that housed the gas station when Bob was still selling gas and working  as a mechanic.  Saturday mornings, when I would go into town to buy gas for the truck and fill a few cans to get through the weekend’s work, I always noticed many of the same men, parked in chairs or standing in the service bay, passing the time in conversation.

Two year’s ago, when we had a spike in gasoline prices, Bob’s tanks ran out at the top of the market, so he bought very expensive gas.  As prices fell at other station’s, Bob’s gas price remained high (around $3.50 a gallon) and everyone complained.  Not everyone supports local businesses enough to keep them profitable in tough times. He owned a skid steer and dump truck at that point, and Bob, who was ready to move on, decided to sell off the remaining gas and close the station.

“What do you want to do?” I asked.

“Dirt work” he replied.

One of the local elderly women stopped by the station as the news spread and said , “Bob, I don’t know what we’re gonna do if you aren’t selling gas in town?”

To which Bob replied, “It won’t make a bit of difference to you, you haven’t bought gas from me in three years.”

So Bob, and the morning crew, moved down the road to a metal building Bob kept his projects in and around the corner from his house.  They meet there nearly every morning, some of the guys even have their own key.  I know many of them by name, and most by their faces.  If I’d grown up here, I would know everything about them as they seem to know about each other.

I usually stop on Saturday mornings to spend an hour or so, catching up on the stories and sharing a few of my own.  “Frosty” will usually greet me with “Well, it must be Saturday, Fritz is here.”  The other men, too, have nick names.

If you want to celebrate Labor Day, spend time with these guys.  Most are farmers, and most have learned the trades and skills in a combination of informal schooling and a few classes here and there.  If there is something that needs to be done, chances are one or more of these guys has done it.  And not just done it  once, but many times, which means they can tell you the right way and the not-so-best practice.  It seems each of these guys has a story about a time a trailer was too heavy, a hill to steep, and the pond or river at the bottom of the hill.  Usually the story ended the same:  is where their work-turned-roller-coaster-slide ended leaving their truck or tractor submerged.

Their successes far out number the failures, the failures just make better stories.

If Bob “holds court”, he is far from  king on his thrown. Much of the time, he is working, turning a wrench, cutting iron, or putting one of his skid steers, bull dozers, or trucks back together.  The work he does takes a toll on equipment.

The others are taking time to stay connected as a community before continuing their morning work.  One farmer, who now works with his adult son, usually stops in for a candy bar between 9:00 and 9:30.  More often than not, as he’s talking with us, his cell phone will ring.  It will be his son, wondering where is dad is and why he isn’t working.  Usually, dad says, “I’m on my BREAK.” and the call ends there.

So for all the work we do, it’s important that we take a lesson from Bob’s Barn and celebrate Labor Day.  Take your break with pride.

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